It's not all about Christmas! Not all aspies feel the same way about all social expectations and events. This book is not intended to tell you everything - only people can do that, and then they can only tell you about themselves. Take this book as a starting point to understanding the full stop at the door, the plea not to leave the car, the absence of an aspie when you are all ready to go. Be good to each other, and remember you can say Yes as well as No.